Child(ren) Held Hostage

I hope this Blog will prove helpful in the recognition and useful in deterrence of Parental Alienation.

I will undoubtedly be using this blog in part as a therapeutic venue. I will also use this blog as a communication portal to my children if they should choose to use it.

"Parental Alienation is about parents who place their own selfish needs above those of their defenseless children and in doing so, they deny them their right to love and be loved by both parents. Alienators do not fit the stereotype of the deficient and ill-equipment parent. Instead, these parents are generally articulate, resourceful, and competent in all other aspects of their lives – except in the realm of parenting. In fact, these individuals might easily be mistaken for ideal parents, except to the properly informed, because they profess love and concern for their children. What sets these individuals apart from other dysfunctional parents is their overwhelming commitment to meeting their own needs first. In doing so, they destroy the relationship their children have with the other parent – at whatever cost. ” Dr. Reena Sommer - Internationally Recognized Divorce and Custody Consultant
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Sunday, March 31, 2013

Happy Easter...

Happy Easter 2013! He is risen! I pray that the two of you kids have a belief in a higher power. I pray that you don't resist your higher power and you freely accept his guiding hand. We pray that you won't try to hide behind God and Jesus as so many people do. Going to church doesn't make you a good person or a believer. It's like an enema, it may not help, but it couldn't hurt.

Evil comes in many variations. One of my biggest qualms with your mother was always her teaching you that God was a punishing God. If you did something she didn't want you to do, she would  say that God would punish you or God wouldn't like it if you don't listen to me.
"God wouldn't like it if you did that!" I really wanted you to know my God. My god is a forgiving and loving God. You will not perish in hell if you don't obey him or me. It is not to say that you can act however or do whatever you want anytime you want. It is to say that your sins are forgiven without even having to ask.

We hope that you truly have The Lord in your hearts.

Enjoy your day and take time to praise him.

We love you,

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